"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What does "AFC" "POF" "BPD" and all of that other sh*t stand for?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
BPD bipolar disorder
POF plenty of fish
PUA pick up artist
ATM a$$ to mouth
BJ *******
IOI - Indicator of Interest
IOD - Indicator of Disinterest
HB - Hot Babe
C&F - ****y and Funny
CB - C0ck Block
LJBF - Let's Just Be Friends
LTR - Long-Term relationship
LDR - Long-Distance relationship
AMOG - Alpha Male Of Group
AA - Approach Anxiety
DHV - Demonstration of Higher Value
DLV - Demonstration of Lower Value
FTC - False Tim Constraint
OKC - OKCupid dating site
FC - Friend Zone
BL - Body Language
FR - Field Report
LR - Lay Report
MM - Mystery Method
DQ - Disqualifier
DTF - Down to Fvck
PDA - Public Display of Affection
IL - Interest Level
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White Knight - Guy always trying to "save" girls from their problems. Come to their rescue.
Kino - Kinesthetics = Touching a girl (non-sexually) to break down the space barrier.
KClose - Kiss Close
FClose - Fvck Close
Peacocking - Doing something to stand out (many times clothing related)
Neg/Neg Hit - Way of slipping in a subtle comment to knock a girl down off her high horse.
Social Proof - Giving off a vibe of high value, based on who knows you, talks to you, talks about you, is with you, etc.
Wing - Wingman out with you to help you pick up chicks.
Sarge - Term for going out to pick up chicks.
Oneitis - Being stuck on one girl, not spinning plates (see below)
Spinning Plates - Having multiple girls on your radar.
Sh!t Test - Tests woman try to trip you up with during your pickup (and some never stop).
EDIT: Added some more, plus took Mike's idea of non Acronyms
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SNL = same night lay (same as ONS)
FWB = friends with benefits
FB = friends with benefits or F a ce book, depending on context
NC = no contact
AW = attention wh@re
OP = original poster
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
LMR - Last Minute Resistance
For others, check out The Urban Dictionary.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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We also have some terms that are not acronyms.
Orbiter = A guy who follows a female around pretending to be her friend but secretly wants her.
Height wh@re = A chick obsessed with tall guys.
Emotional tampon = A guy that is a girl's shoulder to cry on but isn't seeing any action
Duracell_Bunny
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There is much to learn in this one.Blue Hef said:
Checkout the DJB (That the DJ Bible) link at the bottom of this forum.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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GFTOW = Go F ten other women
club high = The fun sexy feeling she gets when she's in the bar or club drinking, partying, and possibly making out, etc. But the next day, she doesn't want to know you because the "club high" wore off.
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