"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you want from this sight?

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From reading the replies to a lot of these questions I noticed a lot of diffrent point of views. It made me wounder what you are after from this sight and from relationships in general?

SO reply with what you hope to get out of this and what your relationship goals are. I am very curious what the Master Don's have to say.

So do it already.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm just trying to make sure I'm not the only sane person alive.
Also, I really think this site* has improved my self esteem tons... it dosnt seem like it at first when u find out just how AFC you are.. but after that its all uphill.
 
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ACtually I do not expect to get anything out from this site anymore. I believe it is more a motivational force to change your life. After the initial push in the right direction we will have to make it on our own. After this sosuave becomes worthless and can give no more. It's like anything else, in the beginning you follow a guideline on how to do stuff, then you personalize it so it fit you instead of the other way around.

This site has helped me tremedously and changed my outlook on life. Now I do not need it anymore but I stay behind to write in my journal and off course to share bad german jokes and just give the people here some headaches :)

When it comes to relationships I want to surround myself with people who care about me and respect me. With the opposite sex I want a girl who fit me and I her and some sex too. I do not want to climb mountains, swim across rivers and stuff like to prove to some unknown person I am a man. To sum it up, I want to do the stuff I like and improve as a person and to share my world with friends and a girlfriend.

What is your goal?
 
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This site just changes your outlook on life. It's a stepping stone, once you skip over it, you dont go back. It teaches you to be critical of the world around you, and make the most out of it.

A lot of the techniques you'll read aren't that important (i.e. phonecall waiting rules, etc), and some of them are actually useful tips.

The real wealth of this website lies in the everyday forum posts from people who try to change the perspective of all the newcomers who enter.

What do I want from this site? Nothing. I mostly read it because I enjoy discussing this stuff with likeminded people, and because some threads are entertaining as hell. Plus, I do enjoy helping out people who are stuck in a sh!tty situation cause of some girl whenever I can.
 
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I'm wanting to play "catch up" with everyone else. Seems I'm one of the only guys I know who "doesn't get it", where my friends are out dating several girls at a time and ALWAYS having them on the side... I can't even get one to so much as smile at me.

Seems like a pretty good reason to figure what's going on and how to fix it. I don't want to marry someone desperately like my friend is doing, I'd rather make the choice of who I want to marry instead of saying "you're not going to do any better man, just take her and run" lol.

Seriously, I want happiness from good relationships where I feel I have a choice in who I date, one where I don't have to put on a facade and one where it's a strong relationship emotionally and physically.

I also wanted to become a DJ to become a dominant male, one with the right attitude, loads of confidence, a fearless approach on life and the energy and happy outlook that makes me feel I can do anything. That's a lot better than the pessimistic attitude I had on life and letting people walk all over me was also something I didn't want to have happen anymore. And essentially by becoming a DJ EVERY aspect would be better; Dating, attitude, appearance, personality, conversation, communication, looks, outlook.

Essentially I've wanted to be what a DJ is since I can remember, but I didn't know how to go about becoming one. But that's changed ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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