"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you think?

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OK there is this girl who is my neighbors friend. When ever she is over we always play baseball in my neighbors back yard.She laughs at all the funny things i say and stuff, but then someone said she should go out with me, and she said eww thats gross. So now im confused what do you think i should do? And do you think she lieks me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vincent

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Hmmm

How old are you? Seems like your around 13 maybe?

Does it really matter if she likes you and why do you care? Do you like her? If so then get her digits or at least do something with her.
 
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Originally posted by hcaz074
OK there is this girl who is my neighbors friend. When ever she is over we always play baseball in my neighbors back yard.She laughs at all the funny things i say and stuff, but then someone said she should go out with me, and she said eww thats gross. So now im confused what do you think i should do? And do you think she lieks me?
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You are exactly 10 years old.
 
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LikRetsam

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Regardless your age, you are just friends.
 
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she said eew, because she does like you, seriously how old is she
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol- dont believe everything a girl says

"Eww thats gross" is ******** for "IM IN LOVE WITH YOU!" or at least in this case.

So its simple- she does like you, though it sounds like youre both pretty young.
 
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