"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hcaz074

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OK there is this girl who is my neighbors friend. When ever she is over we always play baseball in my neighbors back yard.She laughs at all the funny things i say and stuff, but then someone said she should go out with me, and she said eww thats gross. So now im confused what do you think i should do? And do you think she lieks me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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Hmmm

How old are you? Seems like your around 13 maybe?

Does it really matter if she likes you and why do you care? Do you like her? If so then get her digits or at least do something with her.
 

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Originally posted by hcaz074
OK there is this girl who is my neighbors friend. When ever she is over we always play baseball in my neighbors back yard.She laughs at all the funny things i say and stuff, but then someone said she should go out with me, and she said eww thats gross. So now im confused what do you think i should do? And do you think she lieks me?
You are exactly 10 years old.
 

LikRetsam

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Regardless your age, you are just friends.
 

JSH

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she said eew, because she does like you, seriously how old is she
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wonderbread166

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lol- dont believe everything a girl says

"Eww thats gross" is ******** for "IM IN LOVE WITH YOU!" or at least in this case.

So its simple- she does like you, though it sounds like youre both pretty young.
 
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