"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you think of women who can't cook?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
In terms of women, I put them into two categories:
1). Can't cook, but willing to try or learn.
2.) Can't cook, doesn't care. Not willing to try.
The first I can forgive. Many people don't know how to cook anything other than pasta and poptarts, so it's not uncommon. As long as they are willing to learn, and help out, I don't mind. It can be a good way get a chick to warm up to you from what I've experienced.
The second is were I get annoyed. I'm not the type of guy who thinks it's a woman's job to cook. I think EVERYONE should learn. It's a basic life skill. If a woman outright refused to be bothered with cooking, it's very likely I can't be bothered with taking her seriously. She's ONS material.
Bible_Belt
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5string
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My question would be, if she can't cook, what else can't she do? Probably quite a few other basic things.
Any woman who can't cook is lazy in my book. Probably just relies on her looks, gina and Burger King to get by in life.
Colossus
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She doesnt have to be a world-class chef but she should be able to cook decent meals without a problem. I'm old-fashioned that way though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
5string
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Roughly 20% could cook but weren't great and it wasn't their thing. That leaves about 75% that can't cook nor do they care to.
Women offer less and less all the time. Meanwhile the average man's skillset has grown. Men have also learned they don't need a woman to cook and clean either.
backbreaker
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my mother really can't cook either. i mean, there is cooking to where you can create edible food and then there is cooking to Cook. the latter requires a nack that some people just don't have.
like my deceased grandmother could eat something and without looking at a recipe could more times than not make what she is eating. but she was a professional cook.
and some foods just require practice. i don't care how many recipe guides you look at to make real fried chicken takes practice. not only that you won't see a recipe guide that tells you the chicken will have more flavor to it if you used old cooking grease. that's stuff that's handed down to you or you learn for yourself.
then some things people pick up better than others. like i can grill my ass off but when it comes to using the crock pot you can forget it lol.
gimmeyofonenumba
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
u are confusing cause and effect this is a logical fallacy. one has nothing to do with the other.gimmeyofonenumba said:
the most bat **** crazy girl i have ever messed with, a woman who was married and would routinly spend the night over my house, who poked holes in a condom she bought and got pregant (aborted) while she was married, could flat out get down in a kitchen. every day i would come home, well just about and she would be cooking some real ****.
rather a woman can cook or not soley depends in her interest of cooking. my wife has both parents, raised in a model home and just.. she just can't cook lol. well at least not well. my mother's mom was a professional cook and my mom literally burned black eye peas the last time i was down there for Christmas. how the fvck do you burn black eyed peas.
her sister however (my aunt) can really cook. she usually does the cooking at our family get to gethers.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hmmm....interesting name Mate,reminds me of my old Dog LOL...."A woman who cant cook adequately either didnt have a proper mother, or is lazy"....Collossus has the smarts here!....I married one of these...She had a good Mother,smart,but lazy and she couldn't cook either....I would take our resident GP's words even further...If the Mother is like this,London to a Brick,that's how the Daughter will turn out...Take words of advice of a fool.....It's a bad sign that doesn't bode well for your Svex life either!