Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's pretty cool because the writer is a woman. I wanted to see what you guys thought about that, are women all the same by default or is it just that the corruption of our culture(s) is so pervasive that it's really hard to find the "red pill women" like her? or some other viewpoint. I'd like to hear what people from all ages say about it.Mauser96 said:I am browsing the site now. After reading for 10 minutes, I think it is a GREAT site that is bang on. I will continue reading.
Here is a good example from the site.
http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2010/01/why-men-do-not-want-to-marry/
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
But that's only if men let them get away with their sh!t. If we as a collective raise our standards to where they should be, those girls who can get by on their looks alone will end up miserable with some f@ggot AFC since no desirable man tolerates them. That's our part in it.Trump said:I think if Renee was better looking, she:
1) wouldn't have had the guy cheat on her
2) wouldn't develop a website on femininity
Everything in life is about how you look, how you can get to peoples emotions, how desperate you are, how much other people are willing to invest in you.
If Renee was married to a rich Saudi Prince, she wouldn't give a damn about helping her fellow female how to: understand a man" or "cope with relationships".
It's over compensation for things that have gone wrong in her life.
I don't get the point of your post.Trump said:I think if Renee was better looking, she:
1) wouldn't have had the guy cheat on her
2) wouldn't develop a website on femininity
......It's over compensation for things that have gone wrong in her life.
Care to elaborate?MidnightCity said:...but one thing to remember about even the most red pill women is that they are still functioning from a foundation of self-serving reality
Nah, leave em be.VladPatton said:We should get over there and start slingin some dıck
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.