"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do you think of this site?
- Thread starter AttackFormation
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
fat / for ever alone chicks magnet
obviously a female version of dating site.
obviously a female version of dating site.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2013/01/understanding-men-5-insights-on-men-to-ease-your-worries/
That's actually not that bad
That's actually not that bad
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
That's pretty cool because the writer is a woman. I wanted to see what you guys thought about that, are women all the same by default or is it just that the corruption of our culture(s) is so pervasive that it's really hard to find the "red pill women" like her? or some other viewpoint. I'd like to hear what people from all ages say about it.Mauser96 said:
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
This is great, I was expecting some feminine nonsense but then she actually started spouting sh1t that made sense.
One quote that stood out to me, and gained my respect was, I'll paraphrase,
"Society has really messed up the feminine/masculine balance"
This b1tch gets it. Now only if all women were subscribed to her site.
One quote that stood out to me, and gained my respect was, I'll paraphrase,
"Society has really messed up the feminine/masculine balance"
This b1tch gets it. Now only if all women were subscribed to her site.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
We should get over there and start slingin some dıck 
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Here's an article I think you guys will like http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2010/02/what-is-fake-feminine/
3agle 3yes
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I haven't read much, but so far so good...and she's attempting to share the knowledge...which I appreciate.
The name of the site says it all...
The name of the site says it all...
I think if Renee was better looking, she:
1) wouldn't have had the guy cheat on her
2) wouldn't develop a website on femininity
Everything in life is about how you look, how you can get to peoples emotions, how desperate you are, how much other people are willing to invest in you.
If Renee was married to a rich Saudi Prince, she wouldn't give a damn about helping her fellow female how to: understand a man" or "cope with relationships".
It's over compensation for things that have gone wrong in her life.
1) wouldn't have had the guy cheat on her
2) wouldn't develop a website on femininity
Everything in life is about how you look, how you can get to peoples emotions, how desperate you are, how much other people are willing to invest in you.
If Renee was married to a rich Saudi Prince, she wouldn't give a damn about helping her fellow female how to: understand a man" or "cope with relationships".
It's over compensation for things that have gone wrong in her life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
But that's only if men let them get away with their sh!t. If we as a collective raise our standards to where they should be, those girls who can get by on their looks alone will end up miserable with some f@ggot AFC since no desirable man tolerates them. That's our part in it.Trump said:
3agle 3yes
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I don't get the point of your post.Trump said:
Why do you think most guys are on this site?
Some things are given to you, others, you just have to work with...if people shut up and get on with it, looking to improve they get only my respect.
Care to elaborate?MidnightCity said:
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I was reading around the site. Shes pretty spot on with what she says..But a lot of it is almost exactly the PUA version that we learned. She just worded certain things differently. Talked about the most powerful thing a woman can do is "Eliminate men from her dating circle"...Just like our biggest tool is "Walking away"
Shes pretty spot on with this to(Most of it atleast)
http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2014/03/how-to-understand-women/
Overall from what i read so far the site doesnt send out a bad message. Good find.
Shes pretty spot on with this to(Most of it atleast)
http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2014/03/how-to-understand-women/
Overall from what i read so far the site doesnt send out a bad message. Good find.
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I think as more 95+ IQ chicks wake up to the fact that acting like a 2nd rate man will at best get you pumped and dumped and at worse alone with cats and red wine we are going to see more of these sites popping up teaching women how to be feminine again. Can't be a bad thing I guess. I didn't read any of her stuff , don't have the patience for chick talk I'm just going by MidnightCity and El Payaso's posts.
Nah, leave em be.VladPatton said:
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
So how many % of women do you think understand this stuff in the real world by rough age brackets?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.