You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's pretty cool because the writer is a woman. I wanted to see what you guys thought about that, are women all the same by default or is it just that the corruption of our culture(s) is so pervasive that it's really hard to find the "red pill women" like her? or some other viewpoint. I'd like to hear what people from all ages say about it.Mauser96 said:I am browsing the site now. After reading for 10 minutes, I think it is a GREAT site that is bang on. I will continue reading.
Here is a good example from the site.
http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2010/01/why-men-do-not-want-to-marry/
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But that's only if men let them get away with their sh!t. If we as a collective raise our standards to where they should be, those girls who can get by on their looks alone will end up miserable with some f@ggot AFC since no desirable man tolerates them. That's our part in it.Trump said:I think if Renee was better looking, she:
1) wouldn't have had the guy cheat on her
2) wouldn't develop a website on femininity
Everything in life is about how you look, how you can get to peoples emotions, how desperate you are, how much other people are willing to invest in you.
If Renee was married to a rich Saudi Prince, she wouldn't give a damn about helping her fellow female how to: understand a man" or "cope with relationships".
It's over compensation for things that have gone wrong in her life.
I don't get the point of your post.Trump said:I think if Renee was better looking, she:
1) wouldn't have had the guy cheat on her
2) wouldn't develop a website on femininity
......It's over compensation for things that have gone wrong in her life.
Care to elaborate?MidnightCity said:...but one thing to remember about even the most red pill women is that they are still functioning from a foundation of self-serving reality
Nah, leave em be.VladPatton said:We should get over there and start slingin some dıck
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.