"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MatureDJ

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http://cincinnati.craigslist.org/roo/1143547442.html

I am looking for a real fun cute girl who might be up for a “situation” where we are roommates with benefits. I know this sounds way crazy but you never know . . . . I am totally serious and a great guy to be with. I am a very attractive fit successful professional who wants the benefits of a live in cutie without all the drama. I would want us to meet first and if we both were into it and felt some chemistry then move forward. I am looking to start this in July and want to stay in the Oakley/Hyde Park area. I will pay all rent . . . utilities, cable and provide you with a cell if you need one. I am wanting a friendship as much as the “benefits” part and am open to a relationship if we want to go that way. I have a few rules . . .

1) no crazy ex boyfriends or current ones either . . . must be single
2) no drugs (420 is ok though )
3) you will have own room
4) you will help clean and help with laundry
5) no parties

So if this sounds good to you in these tough times and you want a great new friend with potential of way more then please respond to this add … I am 100 % real will send pics to all replies , so please be cute in descent shape and cool it will be fun . . . .
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think it screams of desperation, and a guy who wants to buy a comfortable sexual relationship. That's pretty pathetic. At least with a hooker you don't have to pay her rent and utilities.
 

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I think nobody attractive would ever answer that ad.
 

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An ad looking for a live-in FB? Meh, I'm not surprised. He may even find success.
 

MatureDJ

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Maybe this is the same guy?

http://cincinnati.craigslist.org/roo/1118589993.html

I am looking for a fun woman who would like to live in my house for free. It is a 3 bedroom house with hardwood floors. Pets are welcome and there is a two car garage. You have to include your pics and a phone number. Then tell me why you would be a fun roommate to have. This is a serious offer so serious replies only please. No pic, no reply
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Utter lack of self worth and buttplug experience a plus.
 

Trader

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Thanks for the laugh

It is quite obvious this guy has no game
 

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I think he may have been successful if he only left this part out:

provide you with a cell if you need one.
Women are open to all kinds of things, but when the man wants control and does it by providing a "gift", it creeps out the women.
 

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marijuana
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Luthor Rex

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Fallen said:
Thank you. Is this some kind of "code" for thc-products in the U.S.?
I think it's the police code for pot.
 

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Interesting story. Thanks for clarifying.:up:

By the way: The guy's ad sucks big time. A lot of requirements and "high standards" from him but absolutely no fun stuff or interesting things on his side. Sounds like an obsessive overachiever with no humor and no spontaneity at all. The part where I would freak out as a girl is when he says "will provide you with a cell" How creepy is that?
 

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umm what kind of girl has no cell? not the kind I would want as an FB. Pawwthetic...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Bat

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This guy has got DJ written all over this ad...

...at least, one gold digger will have a roof over her head this summer. :D
 

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I'll bet that ad could be re-written to sound less like he is seeking a live-in wh0re and if he's decent looking and doesn't have any decapitated heads in the freezer he would probably find a few takers.

Women are perfectly willing to trade the poon, they would just prefer things to be worded differently.
 

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This type of pvssy-for-shelter ads is very popular in my city. Signs of the recession.

I'm not surprised if there aren't some desperate chicks taking the offer. There are lots here who can't get a job. Usually they work in hospitality and in this economic climate, it's hard to get work and rent is getting more & more expensive.
 

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Gee, an "attractive, fit guy" having difficulty nabbing hotties(otherwise he wouldn't have posted an ad like this). What a surprise!
 

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Sounds like a buisiness arrangement to me. He's just stating what women actually DO.Maybe the blunt statement of the facts is a little over the top,but if you were moving to a new city for a couple months;would you want to buy the furniture or rent it. the social stigma qould be less than getting arrested for soliciting[which is what he is doing].

Not much different than marriage and he's holding that hope out there-so she doesn't feel like a HO and can justify it in her mind. I think he's more of a DJ than many of you are giving him credit for-he knows what he wants,what he is willing to give up to get it, and doesn't care what society thinks about it. IF I had a job where I was working 80 hours a week and moving to a new town? I can see where I would find a live in maid/toy worth looking for[with a minimum hassle factor-he just ran the ad instead of bar hopping another couple hours a day]


I value my time at $100/hour, so the fun times you spend chasing women 10 hours a week,I figure cost me $1000
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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