MatureDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What do you think of this guy's "ad"?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wjh
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I think it screams of desperation, and a guy who wants to buy a comfortable sexual relationship. That's pretty pathetic. At least with a hooker you don't have to pay her rent and utilities.
MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Utter lack of self worth and buttplug experience a plus.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Luthor Rex
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I think it's the police code for pot.Fallen said:
Interesting story. Thanks for clarifying.
By the way: The guy's ad sucks big time. A lot of requirements and "high standards" from him but absolutely no fun stuff or interesting things on his side. Sounds like an obsessive overachiever with no humor and no spontaneity at all. The part where I would freak out as a girl is when he says "will provide you with a cell" How creepy is that?
By the way: The guy's ad sucks big time. A lot of requirements and "high standards" from him but absolutely no fun stuff or interesting things on his side. Sounds like an obsessive overachiever with no humor and no spontaneity at all. The part where I would freak out as a girl is when he says "will provide you with a cell" How creepy is that?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'll bet that ad could be re-written to sound less like he is seeking a live-in wh0re and if he's decent looking and doesn't have any decapitated heads in the freezer he would probably find a few takers.
Women are perfectly willing to trade the poon, they would just prefer things to be worded differently.
Women are perfectly willing to trade the poon, they would just prefer things to be worded differently.
This type of pvssy-for-shelter ads is very popular in my city. Signs of the recession.
I'm not surprised if there aren't some desperate chicks taking the offer. There are lots here who can't get a job. Usually they work in hospitality and in this economic climate, it's hard to get work and rent is getting more & more expensive.
I'm not surprised if there aren't some desperate chicks taking the offer. There are lots here who can't get a job. Usually they work in hospitality and in this economic climate, it's hard to get work and rent is getting more & more expensive.
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Gee, an "attractive, fit guy" having difficulty nabbing hotties(otherwise he wouldn't have posted an ad like this). What a surprise!
sodbuster
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Sounds like a buisiness arrangement to me. He's just stating what women actually DO.Maybe the blunt statement of the facts is a little over the top,but if you were moving to a new city for a couple months;would you want to buy the furniture or rent it. the social stigma qould be less than getting arrested for soliciting[which is what he is doing].
Not much different than marriage and he's holding that hope out there-so she doesn't feel like a HO and can justify it in her mind. I think he's more of a DJ than many of you are giving him credit for-he knows what he wants,what he is willing to give up to get it, and doesn't care what society thinks about it. IF I had a job where I was working 80 hours a week and moving to a new town? I can see where I would find a live in maid/toy worth looking for[with a minimum hassle factor-he just ran the ad instead of bar hopping another couple hours a day]
I value my time at $100/hour, so the fun times you spend chasing women 10 hours a week,I figure cost me $1000
Not much different than marriage and he's holding that hope out there-so she doesn't feel like a HO and can justify it in her mind. I think he's more of a DJ than many of you are giving him credit for-he knows what he wants,what he is willing to give up to get it, and doesn't care what society thinks about it. IF I had a job where I was working 80 hours a week and moving to a new town? I can see where I would find a live in maid/toy worth looking for[with a minimum hassle factor-he just ran the ad instead of bar hopping another couple hours a day]
I value my time at $100/hour, so the fun times you spend chasing women 10 hours a week,I figure cost me $1000
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.