"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what do you think of this guy?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WORKEROUTER

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I think that's very impressive. Here's a guy who is pushing his body to the utmost limit, and even though he isn't "big," his lifts and his physique let you know that he works extremely hard.

Very motivational. Just don't copy his pull up form.
 

kickureface

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i dont think his goal is to be big, just powerful. i tihnk it's clear that he wants to stay small, if he is at 158 lifting 300-400
 

int3l

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see thats what some of us are after. Very nice stuff. i take it he can dunk a basketball, lucky guy..
 

kickureface

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probably could, but he worked for everything he has. look at his other vids, he has a bunch. not lucky, hard work.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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int3l

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by lucky i meant good job, i know he's worked hard for it.
 

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Looks like he may of been trained by our very own Warboss Alex. :p
 

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how does training differ between wanting a "big" body compared to a small but powerful body like his?
 
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