"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what do you think of this guy?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WORKEROUTER

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I think that's very impressive. Here's a guy who is pushing his body to the utmost limit, and even though he isn't "big," his lifts and his physique let you know that he works extremely hard.

Very motivational. Just don't copy his pull up form.
 

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i dont think his goal is to be big, just powerful. i tihnk it's clear that he wants to stay small, if he is at 158 lifting 300-400
 

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see thats what some of us are after. Very nice stuff. i take it he can dunk a basketball, lucky guy..
 

kickureface

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probably could, but he worked for everything he has. look at his other vids, he has a bunch. not lucky, hard work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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int3l

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by lucky i meant good job, i know he's worked hard for it.
 

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Looks like he may of been trained by our very own Warboss Alex. :p
 

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how does training differ between wanting a "big" body compared to a small but powerful body like his?
 
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