Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SCRPBodybuilder

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So I find myself passing alot of girls all the time. I was thinking right before I pass them I start walking backwards at the same pace so were almost side by side and continue to walk a little bit with them backwards. Then do an approach. What do you think? Too Cheesy??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shiningshadow

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Try it and tell us how it works.
 

TheOne&Only007

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I reckon it's a good idea, a woman would probably be impressed by the originality and sheer audacity of it, providing you pull it off with confidence and style. Let us know how you get on.

Ps - try not to walk backwards into a lamp post!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ Tips is for giving tips; Moved to DJ Discussion.

However, I wouldn't try this one out - for one thing, you're going to look pretty strange walking backwards while trying to hit on a girl (as in scary strange, not "cute" strange). Another issue would be how idiotic you'd look if you ran into an inanimate object or another person. If you want to open a girl, get her attention and start your conversation - without walking backwards.
 

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Im going to try this when i get back to work. I am not going to do it for two long, its not like i would walk an entire hallway like that. I am sure at some point if the girl is interested she will stop and chat.


AIM - SCRPESSV
 

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SCRPBodybuilder said:
So I find myself passing alot of girls all the time. I was thinking right before I pass them I start walking backwards at the same pace so were almost side by side and continue to walk a little bit with them backwards. Then do an approach. What do you think? Too Cheesy??

I'm confused by the walking backward. Would you seriously be walking backwards while talking to her? That seems a bit odd.
 

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this was mentioned in one of david d's programs. i can't remember which one though. i'm sure this will work if done well since it was discussed by david d. himself.
 

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Dude!? What happens if you fall over backwards, hit the back of your skull on the pavement, and end up a quadrapeligic the rest of your life? Not worth the risk, man. Weigh the numbers... Girl with 10% chance of liking you, or life of unhindered mobility. Dude, are you stupid!? Pick the girl! :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WORKEROUTER said:
I'm confused by the walking backward. Would you seriously be walking backwards while talking to her? That seems a bit odd.

What I would do is wait untill im about to pass, then start walking backwards while im looking at her. as soon as she makes eye contact then start a conv. at that point i will stop walking all together

Just kind of messing around with her in a joking way before you start talking
 

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this is just something that i was thinking about while at work.

take it for what its worth.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't like this idea. It just seems slightly AFC to me, like you're tagging along, trying to get a girl's attention. It also sounds like a "gimmick". I'm not big on gimmicks, pick up lines, and things of that sort.

But you never know. Try it and report back.
 
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