What do you think of this approach?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

BigMak87

Don Juan

Apr 4, 2010

Ok so I came up with an idea for an approach. Basically it will go like this approach target and say

Me: Hey, I bet your name is rachel
Her: Uh No its blank (I am banking on the fact that I will be incorrect)
Me: Really? Wow you really looked like a rachel? I usually have a good feel for people's name, but I guess your abnormal.
Me: Well now that I know your name I guess its only fair that you know mine. It's blank.

Thats pretty much an opening I created going to test it soon, but have a lot of studying today.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.