What do you think of this approach?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

BigMak87

Don Juan

Apr 4, 2010

Ok so I came up with an idea for an approach. Basically it will go like this approach target and say

Me: Hey, I bet your name is rachel
Her: Uh No its blank (I am banking on the fact that I will be incorrect)
Me: Really? Wow you really looked like a rachel? I usually have a good feel for people's name, but I guess your abnormal.
Me: Well now that I know your name I guess its only fair that you know mine. It's blank.

Thats pretty much an opening I created going to test it soon, but have a lot of studying today.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.