"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you think of sexless wives?

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What do you think of sexless wives? A woman who loved sex, did it all and including with her man...

After marriage and the kid she was after the sex died down, because she got what she wanted?

How do you feel about a woman expecting a man to be responsible to her and she can't even open her legs?

And how would you feel about such a woman who won't even open her legs for her husband but occasionally induldges in c0ck outside the house, because it is her feminist right?g
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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speed dawg

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I don't think much of it at all. But first things first, look in the mirror and figure out what YOU may have done to turn her off, then focus on what she did.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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Mauser96 said:
That's easy - you married her.

Guaranteed her $$ in child and spousal with that move.
Removed competition anxiety
Allowed her, through marriage, to become your sole source of sex and intimacy

You can do everything else right....but once those kids come, the hook is set in your gills so deep there is no spitting it out without your guts coming with it.

No thanks. Been there, done that.
hmm, guess marrying outside the US is better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dasein

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What do I think of them? I am grateful they exist because seeing the bait and switch happen in soooo many acquaintances' marriages has kept me out of that particular trap.
 
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you have better ODDS outside of the US, it's true, especially in SE Asia. But you have to be careful and you still have to be a certain type of guy, or the odds are still bad.
 
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