"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think of sexless wives?

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What do you think of sexless wives? A woman who loved sex, did it all and including with her man...

After marriage and the kid she was after the sex died down, because she got what she wanted?

How do you feel about a woman expecting a man to be responsible to her and she can't even open her legs?

And how would you feel about such a woman who won't even open her legs for her husband but occasionally induldges in c0ck outside the house, because it is her feminist right?g
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speed dawg

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I don't think much of it at all. But first things first, look in the mirror and figure out what YOU may have done to turn her off, then focus on what she did.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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Mauser96 said:
That's easy - you married her.

Guaranteed her $$ in child and spousal with that move.
Removed competition anxiety
Allowed her, through marriage, to become your sole source of sex and intimacy

You can do everything else right....but once those kids come, the hook is set in your gills so deep there is no spitting it out without your guts coming with it.

No thanks. Been there, done that.
hmm, guess marrying outside the US is better.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dasein

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What do I think of them? I am grateful they exist because seeing the bait and switch happen in soooo many acquaintances' marriages has kept me out of that particular trap.
 
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you have better ODDS outside of the US, it's true, especially in SE Asia. But you have to be careful and you still have to be a certain type of guy, or the odds are still bad.
 
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