RichardTheFrog
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Are they good enough to get a lot of girls?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you think of my looks?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RichardTheFrog
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Are you suggesting some fancy peacocked hairdo? I'm out of luck on the facial hair because I'm in the process of laser facial hair removal. I couldn't grow one of those big fluffy beards, anyway. Last girl I talked to told me I was handsome when shaved and not handsome with facial hair.
This picture was taken the same day the hottest bartender in town told me that I looked really nice. I think my clothes are on point.
Btw, you seem to be one of the more successful guys here. Do you think you get more due to your looks or personality?
RichardTheFrog
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Okay thanks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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What are you asking for advice for then?
A combination of both, but probably moreso personality
I used to be an AFC, when i learned game i tweaked my appearance but there's only so much you can do
the personality change made a huge difference though.
RichardTheFrog
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Yea my personality is ****ed to the point where I need $1 million to even have a chance. Lol.