"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think of my looks?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There's nothing "wrong" with your looks but your style sucks, you need a better hairstyle and some facial hair because you look basic and boring. Also they way you took the picture isn't a good look.
 

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And don't forget to delete picture so you won't end up as a meme on 9 gag.
 
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There's nothing "wrong" with your looks but your style sucks, you need a better hairstyle and some facial hair because you look basic and boring. Also they way you took the picture isn't a good look.
Are you suggesting some fancy peacocked hairdo? I'm out of luck on the facial hair because I'm in the process of laser facial hair removal. I couldn't grow one of those big fluffy beards, anyway. Last girl I talked to told me I was handsome when shaved and not handsome with facial hair.

This picture was taken the same day the hottest bartender in town told me that I looked really nice. I think my clothes are on point.

Btw, you seem to be one of the more successful guys here. Do you think you get more due to your looks or personality?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Infern0

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Are you suggesting some fancy peacocked hairdo? I'm out of luck on the facial hair because I'm in the process of laser facial hair removal. I couldn't grow one of those big fluffy beards, anyway. Last girl I talked to told me I was handsome when shaved and not handsome with facial hair.

This picture was taken the same day the hottest bartender in town told me that I looked really nice. I think my clothes are on point.

Btw, you seem to be one of the more successful guys here. Do you think you get more due to your looks or personality?
What are you asking for advice for then?

A combination of both, but probably moreso personality

I used to be an AFC, when i learned game i tweaked my appearance but there's only so much you can do

the personality change made a huge difference though.
 
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What are you asking for advice for then?

A combination of both, but probably moreso personality

I used to be an AFC, when i learned game i tweaked my appearance but there's only so much you can do

the personality change made a huge difference though.
Yea my personality is ****ed to the point where I need $1 million to even have a chance. Lol.
 
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