"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you think of girls that dont wear bras?

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What do you think of girls that dont wear bras? and you could see there headlights?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Me like(and hope for some rain in the next few minutes).

Although it is very distracting when you're trying to talk to them and your eyes keep automatically shifting to that area every time she laughs.
 
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Meh...It's cool, I guess (as long as they're hot).

There are few things that can send a man's boner into the ground like a fat girl in a tanktop without a bra, allowing those punching-bags to defy gravity in horrendous ways.
 
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your right most chicks these days dont wear bras. I think its a fashion thing.
 
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LOL you dont think fat girls get hit on alot like most pretty girls?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ya i think it ok for females not to wear bras. I wish there was a law to ban bras. Females should not wear them.
 
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Actually, females should wear them; otherwise their tits would start to sag from gravity and lose their bouncy and bouyant shape.

I mean, good tits on a girl are the second best thing to sex. If they can't bounce, that isn't very fun to watch.
 
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Originally posted by mushroomhead
LOL you dont think fat girls get hit on alot like most pretty girls?
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Not by me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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'Cause they're fat? :p
 
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That why?? lol No wonder i see guys checking out pretty slim ones that look like this:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't want to generalize, but most of the times when you see a girl like this you can bet she's an Aw.
 
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if theyre hot, they can just not have a shirt. If its an ugly or old ***** without a bra, its just ****ing gross.
 
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Just look at an aging hippy, eww no.
 
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