"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you think of girls that dont wear bras?

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What do you think of girls that dont wear bras? and you could see there headlights?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Me like(and hope for some rain in the next few minutes).

Although it is very distracting when you're trying to talk to them and your eyes keep automatically shifting to that area every time she laughs.
 

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Meh...It's cool, I guess (as long as they're hot).

There are few things that can send a man's boner into the ground like a fat girl in a tanktop without a bra, allowing those punching-bags to defy gravity in horrendous ways.
 

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your right most chicks these days dont wear bras. I think its a fashion thing.
 

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LOL you dont think fat girls get hit on alot like most pretty girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ya i think it ok for females not to wear bras. I wish there was a law to ban bras. Females should not wear them.
 

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Actually, females should wear them; otherwise their tits would start to sag from gravity and lose their bouncy and bouyant shape.

I mean, good tits on a girl are the second best thing to sex. If they can't bounce, that isn't very fun to watch.
 

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Originally posted by mushroomhead
LOL you dont think fat girls get hit on alot like most pretty girls?
Not by me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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'Cause they're fat? :p
 

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That why?? lol No wonder i see guys checking out pretty slim ones that look like this:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't want to generalize, but most of the times when you see a girl like this you can bet she's an Aw.
 

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if theyre hot, they can just not have a shirt. If its an ugly or old ***** without a bra, its just ****ing gross.
 

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Just look at an aging hippy, eww no.
 
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