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What do you think of "exercise" dates?

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Not really talking about the gym here even though I guess that would be fine too - but more like running/jogging together. What do you guys think about that. Also, if I were to go running with this chick, what are the possible ways that I could escalate with her during it, kino, etc.
 

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I love going to the gym and playing basketball with a girl... beating them in H.O.R.S.E. is always a ncie touch :up:
 

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ABSOLUTELY! Take advantage of the endorphins which exercising creates! :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That sounds like a lot of work and not exactly why I like my women to be sweating. I would just invite her over to the house & "play fight" or something instead if you want some exercise. It's hard to imagine how you would escalate very far while jogging or even have much of a conversation with all the huffing and puffing.
 

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This depends on the woman and when you're doing it. If you have an active woman and this isn't after an 8-hour shift, by all means. Other than that, the novelty will wear off fast and it may feel more like work to her.

Not to mention, some girls are self-consious when they get sweat, which may not work in your. I speak from experience. If you do go that route, don't do it on the first date, learn a little about her first. And the most important thing to remember is.......

Da Bears!
 
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