"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you think of "exercise" dates?

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Not really talking about the gym here even though I guess that would be fine too - but more like running/jogging together. What do you guys think about that. Also, if I were to go running with this chick, what are the possible ways that I could escalate with her during it, kino, etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tsmith2334

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I love going to the gym and playing basketball with a girl... beating them in H.O.R.S.E. is always a ncie touch :up:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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ABSOLUTELY! Take advantage of the endorphins which exercising creates! :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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everywomanshero

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That sounds like a lot of work and not exactly why I like my women to be sweating. I would just invite her over to the house & "play fight" or something instead if you want some exercise. It's hard to imagine how you would escalate very far while jogging or even have much of a conversation with all the huffing and puffing.
 

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This depends on the woman and when you're doing it. If you have an active woman and this isn't after an 8-hour shift, by all means. Other than that, the novelty will wear off fast and it may feel more like work to her.

Not to mention, some girls are self-consious when they get sweat, which may not work in your. I speak from experience. If you do go that route, don't do it on the first date, learn a little about her first. And the most important thing to remember is.......

Da Bears!
 
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