"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what do you think of day dates vs night dates

mackdaddy27

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during the night, its fairly easily to extract back to your place.

But during the day, like meeting for lunch, its kinda more difficult because most don't drink ...but whatever
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rhoto

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If you're interested in having sex with her, and nothing else, the general rule of thumb is to not let the light of day touch her in your presence. Of course there are exceptions to every rule and situation, but I find it much easier to conjure sexual attraction during the hours of 9pm-4am.
 

GitFiddler

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I've had the best luck starting the date around 6 pm. It is past the daytime, but its usually not "too late, I'm tired and have to get up" when you are ready to take the plunge, which is usually around 8 or 9ish. It's always been good timing for me.
 
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