"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you think of day dates vs night dates

mackdaddy27

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during the night, its fairly easily to extract back to your place.

But during the day, like meeting for lunch, its kinda more difficult because most don't drink ...but whatever
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rhoto

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If you're interested in having sex with her, and nothing else, the general rule of thumb is to not let the light of day touch her in your presence. Of course there are exceptions to every rule and situation, but I find it much easier to conjure sexual attraction during the hours of 9pm-4am.
 

GitFiddler

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I've had the best luck starting the date around 6 pm. It is past the daytime, but its usually not "too late, I'm tired and have to get up" when you are ready to take the plunge, which is usually around 8 or 9ish. It's always been good timing for me.
 
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