"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what do you think of day dates vs night dates

mackdaddy27

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during the night, its fairly easily to extract back to your place.

But during the day, like meeting for lunch, its kinda more difficult because most don't drink ...but whatever
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rhoto

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If you're interested in having sex with her, and nothing else, the general rule of thumb is to not let the light of day touch her in your presence. Of course there are exceptions to every rule and situation, but I find it much easier to conjure sexual attraction during the hours of 9pm-4am.
 

GitFiddler

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I've had the best luck starting the date around 6 pm. It is past the daytime, but its usually not "too late, I'm tired and have to get up" when you are ready to take the plunge, which is usually around 8 or 9ish. It's always been good timing for me.
 
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