"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you think made this man such an enormous slayer of poontang?

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https://metro.co.uk/2018/09/28/rome...dies-while-having-sex-with-tourist-23-7986557
A man nicknamed the Romeo of Rimini because he slept with so many women has died while having intercourse with a 23-year-old tourist. Maurizio Zanfanti, Italy’s most famous playboy, was 63 when he died. He is said to have slept with more than 6,000 women, previously boasting that in a successful summer he could sleep with around 200 women. His highest tally, he said, was 207.
I guess the Incels would call him a "Ciad", LOL.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He was big in the nightclub scene and being around so many Women, he developed an uncanny way of talking to and reading Women. Crazy way to go out but im thinking he may have taken a very high dose of an ED drug, also having Alcohol in the mix most likely contributed.
 

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Well, most of us have to WORK long hours and save and pine and have stressors in our daily lives. This guy seems to not have these stressors and can focus on his Lord Byron ways as well as be Open at all times. Women are comfortable with him. I know how to make All women feel comfortable (for sex) with me, but I've got distractions and weighing down of career and not much time for "parties/partying." He's got "good looks" per se of course, but it's his ability to be unfettered by worries of money/normal trying to get ahead struggles that keeps him in "playboy" mode at all times. It's sometimes hard to be free when you're not free 80% of the week every week throughout the year. Women will want to do things with me but I have no time, and when I can, they can't. I barely have enough time to eat, sleep, read. I have rituals that take up my time to keep my mind and body up to snuff to be at my best in the presence of women (and other men who could lead me to women). The dude looks timeless as well, and Fabio-looking as well, and Romance novel riding in on a horse from another world look. Women will sexcapade with that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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He believed he deserved it and actively persued it.
 

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The dude looks timeless as well, and Fabio-looking as well, and Romance novel riding in on a horse from another world look. Women will sexcapade with that.
He does have that kind of look. He has a youthful look for being 63. Looks like he could be a roadie for a rock band or something, or maybe even a member of a hair band from the 80s.

Obviously part of his success was due to environment. I recall someone from RSD saying that you should inhabit an environment where new "women are always coming through". In his nightclub/tourism work, obviously he was constantly meeting women with time on their hands who were out looking to have a good time. I'm sure he seemed exotic to some of these women, who were from other countries or locales. Shoot, he was probably banging some of these women on the job.
 

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There he is. The dreaded “chad” everyone fears. He’s good looking but in a goofball way. Looks like he’s short and with an average body. The point being the guy put himself around a ton of women and got really good and knowing how they tick. He is a real life example of maximizing what you have, without letting your flaws bogg you down, and practicing until perfect.
 

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He was a promoter in the club scene. This job is literally a free pass to pu$$y. You are the gatekeeper of social status to young women, and by the end of the night when they are ploughed full of alcohol and other stuff and want access to that cool after party, you are the guy that can deliver that. And if they want this 5 star treatment week in week out then they will be willing to drop their knickers quite gladly. You don't need to be good looking, dress well or even be much of a charmer. Just be the guy that can get girls access to hang with the cool people and to pump up their status. Instant panty dropper.
 

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He was a promoter in the club scene. This job is literally a free pass to pu$$y. You are the gatekeeper of social status to young women, and by the end of the night when they are ploughed full of alcohol and other stuff and want access to that cool after party, you are the guy that can deliver that. And if they want this 5 star treatment week in week out then they will be willing to drop their knickers quite gladly. You don't need to be good looking, dress well or even be much of a charmer. Just be the guy that can get girls access to hang with the cool people and to pump up their status. Instant panty dropper.
Yeah, I think it's mainly that aswell.

Similar to how I read about how some bodyguard or tour manager or something for 'One Direction' apparently smashed an unbelievable number of barely legal teenagers who wanted to meet the band and stuff.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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