“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do you think kisses really mean?

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A typical thing I notice in AFCs is that a kiss means much more to them than it should. AFCs tend to be hopeless romantics that think a kiss means that all their troubles will fleet away and they're actually in love with the chick from the first kiss. Some actually believe that when you first make out with a girl, you're already boyfriend/girlfriend. That's just stupid. I don't strongly advocate Mystery Method, but I LOVE some of the concepts in his book. He says that kissing is not seduction, it is purely comfort. Sure, there's a natural feeling of ecstasy you get when kissing someone you like, but it doesn't mean much more than that to your typical hot chick who has kissed at least 30 guys in her life.

When you put the kiss on a pedestal, fellow DJs, it becomes some sort of sacred bonding ritual (which it is NOT). Just do yourself a favor and have a random hook-up. You'll see what I mean. I just hate chicks who get so desperate, they assume the boy is their boyfriend once they kiss him. That is just so tacky it's painful. Ugh. Don't be like that, fellow DJs.

Discuss. I would like to hear your thoughts on what a kiss means.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The issue with Deacon's post is that it says that some males think kissing sort of seals the b/f-g/f deal, then goes on to say that kissing does the same thing for certain females.
Logic would then conclude that kissing, for some people, desperate they may be, seals the deal as a b/f-g/f confirmation.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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Most hot chicks have kissed at least 30 guys? How about, most hot chicks have had sex with at least 30 guys.

Kissing to me is just the "official" or "obvious confirmation" that we will not be in the "Just Friends Zone", from that point on, both parties know that there is a romantic interest.
 
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I admit I have done this in the past. I put too much thought into setting up the kiss, then when I was with the girl she seemed to pick up on my desperation and withdrew her trust in me.Then it was awkward. :mad: :eek:

So, I agree. Keep it natural and casual.
 
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