"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do you think kisses really mean?

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The Deacon

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A typical thing I notice in AFCs is that a kiss means much more to them than it should. AFCs tend to be hopeless romantics that think a kiss means that all their troubles will fleet away and they're actually in love with the chick from the first kiss. Some actually believe that when you first make out with a girl, you're already boyfriend/girlfriend. That's just stupid. I don't strongly advocate Mystery Method, but I LOVE some of the concepts in his book. He says that kissing is not seduction, it is purely comfort. Sure, there's a natural feeling of ecstasy you get when kissing someone you like, but it doesn't mean much more than that to your typical hot chick who has kissed at least 30 guys in her life.

When you put the kiss on a pedestal, fellow DJs, it becomes some sort of sacred bonding ritual (which it is NOT). Just do yourself a favor and have a random hook-up. You'll see what I mean. I just hate chicks who get so desperate, they assume the boy is their boyfriend once they kiss him. That is just so tacky it's painful. Ugh. Don't be like that, fellow DJs.

Discuss. I would like to hear your thoughts on what a kiss means.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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The issue with Deacon's post is that it says that some males think kissing sort of seals the b/f-g/f deal, then goes on to say that kissing does the same thing for certain females.
Logic would then conclude that kissing, for some people, desperate they may be, seals the deal as a b/f-g/f confirmation.
 
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Most hot chicks have kissed at least 30 guys? How about, most hot chicks have had sex with at least 30 guys.

Kissing to me is just the "official" or "obvious confirmation" that we will not be in the "Just Friends Zone", from that point on, both parties know that there is a romantic interest.
 
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I admit I have done this in the past. I put too much thought into setting up the kiss, then when I was with the girl she seemed to pick up on my desperation and withdrew her trust in me.Then it was awkward. :mad: :eek:

So, I agree. Keep it natural and casual.
 
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