"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do you think about what this woman have to say ?
- Thread starter SXS
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Unbridled_Phoenix
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 22, 2009
- Messages
- 677
- Reaction score
- 25
Her points were resonant and valid, but in all her honesty, she forgot the other reason women "can't find a good man"...they want to have s3x with all of us.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
One of the reasons is-when I get lucky and catch Angelina in the right mood, I know I just got lucky. When a woman catches Brad drunk and get lucky, she now thinks she deserves a Brad clone and that is her standard.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
I have a standard answer to any middle-age woman who whines, "Where are all the good men?"
Jophil, "Simple, we are avoiding most of you."
The jaw drop is priceless.
Jophil, "Simple, we are avoiding most of you."
The jaw drop is priceless.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
too much blabbering is coming out of this woman's mouth, is this what she is like on a real date? I couldn't take listening to her the entire 3 mins.
so I would suggest to her to add a fourth reason as to why women are single: because they talk too much!! less talky talky and more sucky sucky.
On a more serious note, it ultimately comes down to a woman's interest levels. The more a woman is interested in a man the more she will be willing to compromise her own agenda to be with this man and thus follow his.
so I would suggest to her to add a fourth reason as to why women are single: because they talk too much!! less talky talky and more sucky sucky.
On a more serious note, it ultimately comes down to a woman's interest levels. The more a woman is interested in a man the more she will be willing to compromise her own agenda to be with this man and thus follow his.
I made it to the two minute mark. I will say I do agree with her ideas, however she delivers them in such a way as to cure insomnia. I really had to focus!
I found the part about being picky as a way to reduce vulnerability interesting... I am a pretty picky and selective person... so that's something for me to think about!
I found the part about being picky as a way to reduce vulnerability interesting... I am a pretty picky and selective person... so that's something for me to think about!
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"where are all the good men?"
"back in your 20s where you left them"
"back in your 20s where you left them"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
darkstarrr
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 5, 2008
- Messages
- 415
- Reaction score
- 13
hahaaaRollo Tomassi said:
yea in their 20s some can be succestible to the invincibility thing and then things start to come crashing down around them, reality, their looks, their pathetic little lives, etc
not all are like that but a good amount.
weed them out my friends weeed them out.
make 'm jump through your hoops.
build yourself into thee Man...