"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What do you think about what this woman have to say ?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Her points were resonant and valid, but in all her honesty, she forgot the other reason women "can't find a good man"...they want to have s3x with all of us.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
One of the reasons is-when I get lucky and catch Angelina in the right mood, I know I just got lucky. When a woman catches Brad drunk and get lucky, she now thinks she deserves a Brad clone and that is her standard.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
I have a standard answer to any middle-age woman who whines, "Where are all the good men?"
Jophil, "Simple, we are avoiding most of you."
The jaw drop is priceless.
Jophil, "Simple, we are avoiding most of you."
The jaw drop is priceless.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
too much blabbering is coming out of this woman's mouth, is this what she is like on a real date? I couldn't take listening to her the entire 3 mins.
so I would suggest to her to add a fourth reason as to why women are single: because they talk too much!! less talky talky and more sucky sucky.
On a more serious note, it ultimately comes down to a woman's interest levels. The more a woman is interested in a man the more she will be willing to compromise her own agenda to be with this man and thus follow his.
so I would suggest to her to add a fourth reason as to why women are single: because they talk too much!! less talky talky and more sucky sucky.
On a more serious note, it ultimately comes down to a woman's interest levels. The more a woman is interested in a man the more she will be willing to compromise her own agenda to be with this man and thus follow his.
I made it to the two minute mark. I will say I do agree with her ideas, however she delivers them in such a way as to cure insomnia. I really had to focus!
I found the part about being picky as a way to reduce vulnerability interesting... I am a pretty picky and selective person... so that's something for me to think about!
I found the part about being picky as a way to reduce vulnerability interesting... I am a pretty picky and selective person... so that's something for me to think about!
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"where are all the good men?"
"back in your 20s where you left them"
"back in your 20s where you left them"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
darkstarrr
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hahaaaRollo Tomassi said:
yea in their 20s some can be succestible to the invincibility thing and then things start to come crashing down around them, reality, their looks, their pathetic little lives, etc
not all are like that but a good amount.
weed them out my friends weeed them out.
make 'm jump through your hoops.
build yourself into thee Man...