"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you think about what this woman have to say ?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Her points were resonant and valid, but in all her honesty, she forgot the other reason women "can't find a good man"...they want to have s3x with all of us.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
One of the reasons is-when I get lucky and catch Angelina in the right mood, I know I just got lucky. When a woman catches Brad drunk and get lucky, she now thinks she deserves a Brad clone and that is her standard.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
I have a standard answer to any middle-age woman who whines, "Where are all the good men?"
Jophil, "Simple, we are avoiding most of you."
The jaw drop is priceless.
Jophil, "Simple, we are avoiding most of you."
The jaw drop is priceless.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
too much blabbering is coming out of this woman's mouth, is this what she is like on a real date? I couldn't take listening to her the entire 3 mins.
so I would suggest to her to add a fourth reason as to why women are single: because they talk too much!! less talky talky and more sucky sucky.
On a more serious note, it ultimately comes down to a woman's interest levels. The more a woman is interested in a man the more she will be willing to compromise her own agenda to be with this man and thus follow his.
so I would suggest to her to add a fourth reason as to why women are single: because they talk too much!! less talky talky and more sucky sucky.
On a more serious note, it ultimately comes down to a woman's interest levels. The more a woman is interested in a man the more she will be willing to compromise her own agenda to be with this man and thus follow his.
I made it to the two minute mark. I will say I do agree with her ideas, however she delivers them in such a way as to cure insomnia. I really had to focus!
I found the part about being picky as a way to reduce vulnerability interesting... I am a pretty picky and selective person... so that's something for me to think about!
I found the part about being picky as a way to reduce vulnerability interesting... I am a pretty picky and selective person... so that's something for me to think about!
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"where are all the good men?"
"back in your 20s where you left them"
"back in your 20s where you left them"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
darkstarrr
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hahaaaRollo Tomassi said:
yea in their 20s some can be succestible to the invincibility thing and then things start to come crashing down around them, reality, their looks, their pathetic little lives, etc
not all are like that but a good amount.
weed them out my friends weeed them out.
make 'm jump through your hoops.
build yourself into thee Man...