"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ascalon

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Hey ya guys! :)

This questions I am going to ask you are really important for me. Not long ago I had plastic operation for implantation of artificial testis ,because before 2 weeks I had only 1 (lost after car accident,long and sad story :( )That was the secret of my life (I am 17 now,but I lack the testis since I was 3) and now it's almost over with that. The doctor had experience with that kind of operations and I think he did the best he could.After the surgery only 2 problems left - the scar left of the penis , and the fact that the artificial testis is a little bit smaller than the real one.

1)What do you think? Is it better to talk with my girl about this or I should just let her find out alone? I read somewhere that it's not good to talk with my girl directly about this and if she really likes me she will stay after she finds out.

2)I also read that it's normal for the testicles not to be on exactly equal level. But in this case the gilr's question would be: Where do you have that scar from?

3)I am not good at lies.My maths teacher for example has cancer and she lacks one breast but she is not afraid to confess that and talks about this problem openly. So help me to resolve my problem.Do I have to be embarrassed of this at all?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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musclyjerk

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I wouldn't bother - it's normal for one bollock to be smaller then the other.

If it's just a casual relationship and you're just sleeping with her and she asks about the scar just tell her you had an accident on a bike one time. You don't need girls gossiping and telling other people about such a delicate issue.

Don't feel bad for not telling the truth about it - it's a very personal thing and other people really don't need to know.

The Muscly Jerk
 

Plec07

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If she asks just tell her you were in a car accident when you were younger and that you'd rather not talk about it, theres no reason to bring it up yourself otherwise chances are she'll think you want to talk more about it. Most people won't bother persuing it as it's such a personal matter as long as your not the one to bring it up.

Theres also no reason to be embarrassed about it as it's part of what makes you and theres nothing wrong with you for having a scar, regardless of where it is.

PS: Soz if I'm repeating myself anywhere I've been awake for near 26 hours and nackered as hell.
 
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