"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ascalon

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Hey ya guys! :)

This questions I am going to ask you are really important for me. Not long ago I had plastic operation for implantation of artificial testis ,because before 2 weeks I had only 1 (lost after car accident,long and sad story :( )That was the secret of my life (I am 17 now,but I lack the testis since I was 3) and now it's almost over with that. The doctor had experience with that kind of operations and I think he did the best he could.After the surgery only 2 problems left - the scar left of the penis , and the fact that the artificial testis is a little bit smaller than the real one.

1)What do you think? Is it better to talk with my girl about this or I should just let her find out alone? I read somewhere that it's not good to talk with my girl directly about this and if she really likes me she will stay after she finds out.

2)I also read that it's normal for the testicles not to be on exactly equal level. But in this case the gilr's question would be: Where do you have that scar from?

3)I am not good at lies.My maths teacher for example has cancer and she lacks one breast but she is not afraid to confess that and talks about this problem openly. So help me to resolve my problem.Do I have to be embarrassed of this at all?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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musclyjerk

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I wouldn't bother - it's normal for one bollock to be smaller then the other.

If it's just a casual relationship and you're just sleeping with her and she asks about the scar just tell her you had an accident on a bike one time. You don't need girls gossiping and telling other people about such a delicate issue.

Don't feel bad for not telling the truth about it - it's a very personal thing and other people really don't need to know.

The Muscly Jerk
 

Plec07

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If she asks just tell her you were in a car accident when you were younger and that you'd rather not talk about it, theres no reason to bring it up yourself otherwise chances are she'll think you want to talk more about it. Most people won't bother persuing it as it's such a personal matter as long as your not the one to bring it up.

Theres also no reason to be embarrassed about it as it's part of what makes you and theres nothing wrong with you for having a scar, regardless of where it is.

PS: Soz if I'm repeating myself anywhere I've been awake for near 26 hours and nackered as hell.
 
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