"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you think about this line : "excuse me, are you single ?"

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when you able to attempt eye contact, you can see if shes interested.

but What happens when she might be facing the other way or didn't notice you.

can you open her up just like that, without even eye contact?


What do you think about this line : "excuse me, are you single ?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What are the chances that she will turn around, look you in the eye and say "yes" ?
 
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That won't get you anywhere, bro. A good opener should have the potential to spark up a conversation, so that you can build rapport and comfort.
 
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I dunno, if I was doing whatever and some ok looking person came up to me and said that...I'd be like...uhh, yeah, I'm single, but you ain't touching this sh!t.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, lets just say, I used something similar to this back in my AFC days (with somebody I actually knew)...and I crashed and burned.
 
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That's too direct. Even if she WOULD go on a date with you, she wouldn't respond favorably to a line like that.
 
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Are you serious?
First off, just say NO to canned openers.

Secondly, if you must fall back on something predetermined, it should be the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of this crap.
 
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