"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you think about this line : "excuse me, are you single ?"

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when you able to attempt eye contact, you can see if shes interested.

but What happens when she might be facing the other way or didn't notice you.

can you open her up just like that, without even eye contact?


What do you think about this line : "excuse me, are you single ?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What are the chances that she will turn around, look you in the eye and say "yes" ?
 
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That won't get you anywhere, bro. A good opener should have the potential to spark up a conversation, so that you can build rapport and comfort.
 
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I dunno, if I was doing whatever and some ok looking person came up to me and said that...I'd be like...uhh, yeah, I'm single, but you ain't touching this sh!t.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude, lets just say, I used something similar to this back in my AFC days (with somebody I actually knew)...and I crashed and burned.
 
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That's too direct. Even if she WOULD go on a date with you, she wouldn't respond favorably to a line like that.
 
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Are you serious?
First off, just say NO to canned openers.

Secondly, if you must fall back on something predetermined, it should be the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of this crap.
 
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