"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you think about my new glasses?

ssj4halo

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I was going to get that typical black glasses like what everyone else has. But I was like w/e! Imma do my own thing. So I picked out this frame. MY optomitrist secretary said I look better in them than the black glasses:

http://eyeglasses123.com/framecolorimages/PR_05FV_1AB.jpg

but the frame is thinner all around. I ended up getting this one:

http://www.abs-sunglasses.com/Shades/ProductImages/46/VPR_63_F_8AE_1O1_01.jpg

okay so here are some pictures I uploaded with me with glasses and without. Can you guys tell me if I can pull it off, or do I look hella wierd.

Note: I haven't shaved in the past 5 days, so WARNING :p

Also any suggestions about hairstyle/earrings/facial hair would be good on me because I can't seem to figure them out. I usually just cut my hair to 1.5 inches and let it grow out again.

One last thing. I am also trying to gain 10 more lbs of muscle by end of summer.(I am 5 7'-8') So if you can comment on how much more mass I need to put on to look like brad pitt in fight club:

http://www.haisentito.it/img/_FightClub.jpg

So here are the pics. And please be as HONEST as possible. I really want to look the best I can. Thanks a LOT for your time
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Corona

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You'd look much cooler with a different haircut. I'm thinking something messy/bedhead or spiky.
 

Rho

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you dont have to put on any weight, brad pitt was something like 165lbs at 5 11' in fight club

in the real world his physique in that film would not even look that great, it would be hidden by clothing, he also has lighting to specifically make him look more cut.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mothballs

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Yeah I'd look for a different hair cut... too much hair on your forehead IMO. And most ladies like a clean shaven look... makes them want to touch you that much more. Good choice on the glasses however... black frames are too emo.
 

Five To One

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Yeah brad doesnt weigh that much, at 5'11", he is about 170, which I think is about the ideal weight for someone at 5'11".
You arent going to be as cut as what that picture shows even if you work your asc off and weigh in at 170. but it will give you a great look none the less; lean but still a good sized frame, defenently not skinny.
 

pLaYtHiNg

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I agree with the bedhead look. It's so hot, and I can imagine it on you:) You look good:) Stubble is always something that rocks my world, but not so sure about other women. Earings may be pushing it, but let's see updated pix with the suggestions and go from there.

P.S. Why do you want to look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club? He's not that hot.
 
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