"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you think about my new glasses?

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ssj4halo

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I was going to get that typical black glasses like what everyone else has. But I was like w/e! Imma do my own thing. So I picked out this frame. MY optomitrist secretary said I look better in them than the black glasses:

http://eyeglasses123.com/framecolorimages/PR_05FV_1AB.jpg

but the frame is thinner all around. I ended up getting this one:

http://www.abs-sunglasses.com/Shades/ProductImages/46/VPR_63_F_8AE_1O1_01.jpg

okay so here are some pictures I uploaded with me with glasses and without. Can you guys tell me if I can pull it off, or do I look hella wierd.

Note: I haven't shaved in the past 5 days, so WARNING :p

Also any suggestions about hairstyle/earrings/facial hair would be good on me because I can't seem to figure them out. I usually just cut my hair to 1.5 inches and let it grow out again.

One last thing. I am also trying to gain 10 more lbs of muscle by end of summer.(I am 5 7'-8') So if you can comment on how much more mass I need to put on to look like brad pitt in fight club:

http://www.haisentito.it/img/_FightClub.jpg

So here are the pics. And please be as HONEST as possible. I really want to look the best I can. Thanks a LOT for your time
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Corona

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You'd look much cooler with a different haircut. I'm thinking something messy/bedhead or spiky.
 
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Rho

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you dont have to put on any weight, brad pitt was something like 165lbs at 5 11' in fight club

in the real world his physique in that film would not even look that great, it would be hidden by clothing, he also has lighting to specifically make him look more cut.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah I'd look for a different hair cut... too much hair on your forehead IMO. And most ladies like a clean shaven look... makes them want to touch you that much more. Good choice on the glasses however... black frames are too emo.
 
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Five To One

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Yeah brad doesnt weigh that much, at 5'11", he is about 170, which I think is about the ideal weight for someone at 5'11".
You arent going to be as cut as what that picture shows even if you work your asc off and weigh in at 170. but it will give you a great look none the less; lean but still a good sized frame, defenently not skinny.
 
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pLaYtHiNg

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I agree with the bedhead look. It's so hot, and I can imagine it on you:) You look good:) Stubble is always something that rocks my world, but not so sure about other women. Earings may be pushing it, but let's see updated pix with the suggestions and go from there.

P.S. Why do you want to look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club? He's not that hot.
 
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