"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you think about lying in your online profile?

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I brought this question up in the thread about lying about your age, but I think it deserves it's own thread. What do you think in general about fudging some facts in an online profile?

I'm talking about age, income, profession, interests, etc. Of course this is going to depend on what you're using the online stuff for: getting laid or finding your own special little buttercup. Me, I just need to bang it out after my second divorce, but I truly do detest lying.

So, what do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stagger Lee

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I think if your display age is past the 30's about all you'll have is slim pickings of 30-40+ year olds that you wouldn't want. If you just want to bang it and with younger girls, once your display age is much above early 30's it's going to be tough finding many girls under 28. Even at 32 most of the girls that respond to me are close to 30 and I get more responses from girls older than 32 than I do from girls under 25.
 

powpow

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I lie all the time on my online dating profiles.

who cares?

when we meet, they sometimes say "I thought you were taller" or "I thought you were older/younger"

who cares? just keep going and they'll eventually pound it out with you.

Im 25, pounded it with 18-39 that Ive met online. they all say "I thought you were..." and then I was like whatever, doesn't matter. theyve all got something to hide too.
 
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