“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do you think about getting laid in 30-60 days method?

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http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/advanced/160.html

Has this article been discussed here at sosuave? He talks about LJBF and how escalating at the wrong time is the culprit. He says that we should aim to be friends with the girl, yet never making her want to be your friend or LJBF. So treat her as a friend but don't let her be your friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Personally I think two months is way too long. I think the whole starting out as friends thing isn't the best way. It's like trying to sarge your sister, it's not the right type of relationship to make sexual. However, if you start with sexual tension and interweave being friendly throughout, you'd have a better chance in less time.
 

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That was written by Sebastian, one of the Natural Game guys. I think he's suggesting the make friends with women first mindset to help a certain kind of guy, which is the guy who's always in hunting mode when he socializes. Some guys are so eager for the lay that they telegraph their eagerness and try to escalate too quickly. It would probably help their game a lot to calm down and get to know the women first.

On the other hand, you have guys who wait too long to escalate because they're scared. Not capitalizing when you have a window for escalation is just as bad as escalating at the wrong time. Both are social miscalibration and convey lack of experience, lowering your value.

Also I think that article is just a rough blueprint, not a guaranteed method like it's being advertised as. The point of a 30-60 day timeframe is so an AFC can identify his problems as well as internalize good social game. Some guys have internal game issues that will take longer than 60 days to fix, especially without a mentor. Others will take that long just to get a # or a kiss close. It's still a good starting place though.
 

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Ok Thanks a bunch on your take on this, that it's a training plan.

Now, I've got another question, but NO link :(

Have ANY of you ever read the e-book by J.D. Fuentes entitled "THE SEXUAL KEY:
How to Use the Structure of Female
Emotion to Arouse a Woman in Minutes

??

I've read it before, and am currently re-reading all the stuff I've collected over the years, basically to delete/throw away useless and to keep the useful.

This one looks like a keeper. Talks about how Words are the key to a woman's emotions (both abstract and physical in the moments i.e. sexual ones). It's from the old NLP, Richard Bandler, Ross Jeffries, etc scheme, but I believe that the book must be about 3-4 years old.

It kind of helps me to understand that kino ain't IT, that you MUST arouse a woman through your words, basically women will listen to Anything over you touching them, and thus your words can keep pushing the envelop until her abstract emotions accepts or isn't accessed by her to go ahead and let you pump her full of, the cvm juice!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I read J.D's book a long time ago. If my memory serves me correctly, the most useful stuff is at the back

Everyone should consider improving their communication skills..however, my concern is that if you start using the type of language constructs that JD suggests, and you do it OUT OF SOCIAL CONTEXT, you will sound like a complete freaker!
 
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