"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you think about getting laid in 30-60 days method?

Poonani Maker

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http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/advanced/160.html

Has this article been discussed here at sosuave? He talks about LJBF and how escalating at the wrong time is the culprit. He says that we should aim to be friends with the girl, yet never making her want to be your friend or LJBF. So treat her as a friend but don't let her be your friend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personally I think two months is way too long. I think the whole starting out as friends thing isn't the best way. It's like trying to sarge your sister, it's not the right type of relationship to make sexual. However, if you start with sexual tension and interweave being friendly throughout, you'd have a better chance in less time.
 

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That was written by Sebastian, one of the Natural Game guys. I think he's suggesting the make friends with women first mindset to help a certain kind of guy, which is the guy who's always in hunting mode when he socializes. Some guys are so eager for the lay that they telegraph their eagerness and try to escalate too quickly. It would probably help their game a lot to calm down and get to know the women first.

On the other hand, you have guys who wait too long to escalate because they're scared. Not capitalizing when you have a window for escalation is just as bad as escalating at the wrong time. Both are social miscalibration and convey lack of experience, lowering your value.

Also I think that article is just a rough blueprint, not a guaranteed method like it's being advertised as. The point of a 30-60 day timeframe is so an AFC can identify his problems as well as internalize good social game. Some guys have internal game issues that will take longer than 60 days to fix, especially without a mentor. Others will take that long just to get a # or a kiss close. It's still a good starting place though.
 

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Ok Thanks a bunch on your take on this, that it's a training plan.

Now, I've got another question, but NO link :(

Have ANY of you ever read the e-book by J.D. Fuentes entitled "THE SEXUAL KEY:
How to Use the Structure of Female
Emotion to Arouse a Woman in Minutes

??

I've read it before, and am currently re-reading all the stuff I've collected over the years, basically to delete/throw away useless and to keep the useful.

This one looks like a keeper. Talks about how Words are the key to a woman's emotions (both abstract and physical in the moments i.e. sexual ones). It's from the old NLP, Richard Bandler, Ross Jeffries, etc scheme, but I believe that the book must be about 3-4 years old.

It kind of helps me to understand that kino ain't IT, that you MUST arouse a woman through your words, basically women will listen to Anything over you touching them, and thus your words can keep pushing the envelop until her abstract emotions accepts or isn't accessed by her to go ahead and let you pump her full of, the cvm juice!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I read J.D's book a long time ago. If my memory serves me correctly, the most useful stuff is at the back

Everyone should consider improving their communication skills..however, my concern is that if you start using the type of language constructs that JD suggests, and you do it OUT OF SOCIAL CONTEXT, you will sound like a complete freaker!
 
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