"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What do you tell your sons?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you get the basics right of being a man they won't have any trouble in life
Every culture in the world knows this, even tribes in the jungle
Ours has gone to hell because the feminists have taken over
To quote Fight Club - we are a generation of men raised by women. And this has to change
It makes me physically angry them telling boys it ok's to be weak and show your emotions and cry
No it fvcking ain't
And of course they grow up cucked and reliant on a woman's validation. Hello rejection!
Sick beyond words
sazc
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when he gets to be the age where he's interacting on that level with girls I will be coaching him on how to spot the S test and how not to put up with the crap
Anything other than yes is a no, if you feel confused it is because she's really not interested, etc etc.
just try to coach him through the games so he recognizes them early and can sidestep them and find females who are actually interested and responsive
Tdawg
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Your kids are going to learn a lot more from your actions than your words. My wife and I show a lot of affection (open kissing, hugs, slaps on the ass) around the kids and also have an old skool marriage (wife stays home to takes care of house and kids and I work and provide). I saw this same dynamic with my parents and so did my brother. My mom waited on my dad hand and foot and I think seeing that really helped me in taking no **** from the women I meet. My dad cherished my mom and treated her with all the respect in the world.. I never heard my dad raise his voice to this day, but somehow nobody ****ed with him and when he said to do something, we did it. I'm the same way with my kids; i don't get too involved in the day to day grind, but if there's a major decision to make, or the kids have been acting up and my wife asks me to step in (or I feel the need to step in) I step in and handle the situation. Kids need to see this.
If your kids have a strong male dominant presence in their lives, I think they'll learn a lot through observance. This will give your sons the foundation of what it takes to be a man. You don't need teach them how to spot S test and how not to put up with crap, they'll need to figure that out on their own through their own experiences.
mrgoodstuff
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Late HS and just after HS:
1. No good morning texts to a woman who is not yours.
2. Dont do any extra work dor a female whose not yours. Unless she does the same for you
3. Females pursue. They know who they want. Theres no convincing.
4. Female must invest. Means she Likes to help you. There is no fighting over whose the man
5. The sex part i dont mention except to my 23 yo. Sex early and often. Women give it up to the guy she wants. And it should be easy access.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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wifehunter
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I no haz kids!
Hope that doesn't turn into over confidence. Dealing with women at 16 is waaaaaaaaay different than dealing with women at 20-25-30 and beyond. You have to play a much more tight and strategic game to be victorious. This is like the varsity team winning against the JV and thinking they're all bad a$$.
Whoah.... proud dad here on top of him shootin his first deer last year (hes 15)