"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

What do you screen for before you decide to enter a LTR ??

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

grayclif

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2009
Messages
531
Reaction score
223
ok thanks for the input guys general consensus seems to be feel her out for 8 - 12 weeks and leave her bring "the talk" up

her family is stable , there doesn't seem to be a long list of ex boyfriends only the one , she has a job , her own money and she can drive

also seems to be a nice mix between lady in the street and freak in the sheets

i haven't met a girl like this before i never really believed they existed , so i am treading very carefully
Your a$$ better be spinning plates. Just sayin... and if you aren't she is going to rip your heart out your flippin chest and stuff it down your effing throat.
 

Bingo-Player

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2014
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
4,363
Location
uk
Your a$$ better be spinning plates. Just sayin... and if you aren't she is going to rip your heart out your flippin chest and stuff it down your effing throat.
i am still spinning , but not really putting much interest into other plates infact i could probably say i have neglected one or two in the last couple of days

will try and pick up the slack with them tonight because i am aware oneitis could crop up
 

grayclif

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2009
Messages
531
Reaction score
223
i am still spinning , but not really putting much interest into other plates infact i could probably say i have neglected one or two in the last couple of days

will try and pick up the slack with them tonight because i am aware oneitis could crop up
Cool. Maintaining frame is so important. Especially with the ones you really like.
 
Top