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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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grayclif

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ok thanks for the input guys general consensus seems to be feel her out for 8 - 12 weeks and leave her bring "the talk" up

her family is stable , there doesn't seem to be a long list of ex boyfriends only the one , she has a job , her own money and she can drive

also seems to be a nice mix between lady in the street and freak in the sheets

i haven't met a girl like this before i never really believed they existed , so i am treading very carefully
Your a$$ better be spinning plates. Just sayin... and if you aren't she is going to rip your heart out your flippin chest and stuff it down your effing throat.
 

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Your a$$ better be spinning plates. Just sayin... and if you aren't she is going to rip your heart out your flippin chest and stuff it down your effing throat.
i am still spinning , but not really putting much interest into other plates infact i could probably say i have neglected one or two in the last couple of days

will try and pick up the slack with them tonight because i am aware oneitis could crop up
 

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i am still spinning , but not really putting much interest into other plates infact i could probably say i have neglected one or two in the last couple of days

will try and pick up the slack with them tonight because i am aware oneitis could crop up
Cool. Maintaining frame is so important. Especially with the ones you really like.
 
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