"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you say when they find your porn

vdk

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At first deny its existence, scratch your head as if you dont know how it got there. Then point at her, laugh, then run out of the room giggling like a girl.....:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ratman

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If my SO was to find my hunk of porn id just say watch it you could learn somthing in a jokey way thou ;) i notice that girls dont really care, when im at partys and someone slaps channel porn on and then off most the girls are saying put it back.
 

TooColdUlrick

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i have so much porn you wouldn't believe it. probably 200 gigs off the newsgroups. i couldn't care less if her, or anyone else, "finds" it.

one of my married buddies, hid some porn mags. way underneath the desk, like bolted to the underside. guess what? the wife found it! she's icy and wasn't happy about it.
 
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