"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you say to guys (and girls) who removed you from facebook?

TheLoner

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What do you say to guys (and girls) who removed you from facebook?

And you also have to see these people on a regular basis?


It's very awkward.

Can I just completely ignore them, or act like it never happened?

Has this ever happened to you before?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smok1nAce

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i act like i didn't even notice because i really don't care, Facebook is facebook.
 

djjizzyjeff

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TheLoner said:
What do you say to guys (and girls) who removed you from facebook?

And you also have to see these people on a regular basis?


It's very awkward.

Can I just completely ignore them, or act like it never happened?

Has this ever happened to you before?

I wouldn't say anything nor would care. Then again it wouldn't matter to me as I've deleted my Facebook about a year ago now. Not too many people would be concerned as it is as they're more worried about their own attention and only care if you are of pretty high value for them and their own need for your attention/ online friendship.

Grow up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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foreverAFC

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i already told you man, you need to just ask him to rub your back after practice
 

floydb25

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Never happened... usually the other way around, or I ignore their friend requests. I'm apparently social, insightful, interested (in others), entertaining, "real", and crazy enough to keep people around. Same as in real life... everyone always wants / wanted to hang out and be friends, or date, whatever... even if they're ****ty / rude / abusive people, and I hate their guts. Same with work, and elsewhere... everyone tries to get me to talk, and this and that - even though I hate everyone, and prefer solitude. Still have that innate social ability, and being able to connect to others, and keep a conversation going. People always said I have a nice personality, and seem like a cool person. Still hate them, though.

Wouldn't care if they disliked me, though. It's usually not just because... but, ie; having a falling out, realizing they're fake and two-faced, getting into a big fight, not having anything in common, etc. Doesn't stop them from not realizing it, and trying to keep things the way they are, and them with the upper-hand, or not being rejected / abandoned. Too bad nobody cares what those selfish *******s want.

Not an unlikeable person, but there's a lot of fake people out there. Ergo, being likeable and sociable isn't anything special. You attract a lot of ****ty people, all the same... especially if you're a bit on the nicer, easy-going side... not necessarily in terms of personality (was always ****y and witty), but in being too understanding, giving everyone the benefit of the doubt, not being assertive or standing up for yourself or setting boundaries, letting people control / define you... people love to take advantage of that... especially losers looking for a scapegoat for their own failures and insecurities... which is all *******s are: cowards..

No sense putting yourself too out there and trying to be likeable by everyone. Most people are ****.

This is another one of those grass is greener symptoms. You might think it's all happy funtime, but its just as ****ty as when you have no friends, or whatever. Mostly because a lot of people are ****. Same with being attractive to the opposite sex, or whatever.
 
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