"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you say to guys (and girls) who removed you from facebook?

TheLoner

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What do you say to guys (and girls) who removed you from facebook?

And you also have to see these people on a regular basis?


It's very awkward.

Can I just completely ignore them, or act like it never happened?

Has this ever happened to you before?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smok1nAce

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i act like i didn't even notice because i really don't care, Facebook is facebook.
 

djjizzyjeff

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TheLoner said:
What do you say to guys (and girls) who removed you from facebook?

And you also have to see these people on a regular basis?


It's very awkward.

Can I just completely ignore them, or act like it never happened?

Has this ever happened to you before?

I wouldn't say anything nor would care. Then again it wouldn't matter to me as I've deleted my Facebook about a year ago now. Not too many people would be concerned as it is as they're more worried about their own attention and only care if you are of pretty high value for them and their own need for your attention/ online friendship.

Grow up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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foreverAFC

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i already told you man, you need to just ask him to rub your back after practice
 

floydb25

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Never happened... usually the other way around, or I ignore their friend requests. I'm apparently social, insightful, interested (in others), entertaining, "real", and crazy enough to keep people around. Same as in real life... everyone always wants / wanted to hang out and be friends, or date, whatever... even if they're ****ty / rude / abusive people, and I hate their guts. Same with work, and elsewhere... everyone tries to get me to talk, and this and that - even though I hate everyone, and prefer solitude. Still have that innate social ability, and being able to connect to others, and keep a conversation going. People always said I have a nice personality, and seem like a cool person. Still hate them, though.

Wouldn't care if they disliked me, though. It's usually not just because... but, ie; having a falling out, realizing they're fake and two-faced, getting into a big fight, not having anything in common, etc. Doesn't stop them from not realizing it, and trying to keep things the way they are, and them with the upper-hand, or not being rejected / abandoned. Too bad nobody cares what those selfish *******s want.

Not an unlikeable person, but there's a lot of fake people out there. Ergo, being likeable and sociable isn't anything special. You attract a lot of ****ty people, all the same... especially if you're a bit on the nicer, easy-going side... not necessarily in terms of personality (was always ****y and witty), but in being too understanding, giving everyone the benefit of the doubt, not being assertive or standing up for yourself or setting boundaries, letting people control / define you... people love to take advantage of that... especially losers looking for a scapegoat for their own failures and insecurities... which is all *******s are: cowards..

No sense putting yourself too out there and trying to be likeable by everyone. Most people are ****.

This is another one of those grass is greener symptoms. You might think it's all happy funtime, but its just as ****ty as when you have no friends, or whatever. Mostly because a lot of people are ****. Same with being attractive to the opposite sex, or whatever.
 
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