Never happened... usually the other way around, or I ignore their friend requests. I'm apparently social, insightful, interested (in others), entertaining, "real", and crazy enough to keep people around. Same as in real life... everyone always wants / wanted to hang out and be friends, or date, whatever... even if they're ****ty / rude / abusive people, and I hate their guts. Same with work, and elsewhere... everyone tries to get me to talk, and this and that - even though I hate everyone, and prefer solitude. Still have that innate social ability, and being able to connect to others, and keep a conversation going. People always said I have a nice personality, and seem like a cool person. Still hate them, though.
Wouldn't care if they disliked me, though. It's usually not just because... but, ie; having a falling out, realizing they're fake and two-faced, getting into a big fight, not having anything in common, etc. Doesn't stop them from not realizing it, and trying to keep things the way they are, and them with the upper-hand, or not being rejected / abandoned. Too bad nobody cares what those selfish *******s want.
Not an unlikeable person, but there's a lot of fake people out there. Ergo, being likeable and sociable isn't anything special. You attract a lot of ****ty people, all the same... especially if you're a bit on the nicer, easy-going side... not necessarily in terms of personality (was always ****y and witty), but in being too understanding, giving everyone the benefit of the doubt, not being assertive or standing up for yourself or setting boundaries, letting people control / define you... people love to take advantage of that... especially losers looking for a scapegoat for their own failures and insecurities... which is all *******s are: cowards..
No sense putting yourself too out there and trying to be likeable by everyone. Most people are ****.
This is another one of those grass is greener symptoms. You might think it's all happy funtime, but its just as ****ty as when you have no friends, or whatever. Mostly because a lot of people are ****. Same with being attractive to the opposite sex, or whatever.
