"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you remember most about the girl after you've had sex?

Poonani Maker

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I mean, right after you've nutted up until after she leaves. I remember her scent the most.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic

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I remember the way she sounded the most. The way she moans, things she says, etc. Smells is second. scent stays in the human memory the longest, but the sounds she made sticks out in my brain the most.
 

romangod

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I try to remember her name.


Cheers!
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Where the hell are my boots anyway?

Smells, sights, and sounds.
 

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Scents are most vividly linked to memory. I always remember the smell....and if it wasnt one I liked, I cant do her again. Just cant.

Some chicks have bad breath too, and this is awful. Totally kills any sexual attraction.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Whether or not she swallows.

Heheh,..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thedude4242

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fuzzx, I have gotten that many times, what is your belief on why?
 

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thedude4242 said:
fuzzx, I have gotten that many times, what is your belief on why?

1: Chicks always have to pee, especially after beatin' up her bladder.

2: It helps prevent urinary tract infections if they pee after sex.
 
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