shiningshadow
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I like hot girls and all but I find the cute ones to be great. Most of the time I'd rather have a relationship with a cute girl. What about you guys?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do you prefer? Hot or cute girls?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
cute girls r less experienced in the game. They're easier to get.
hot girls know they're hot n are usually attention wh0res, or b!tches or flirts. or all 3. they play games too.
hot girls are more fo a challenge to get a stupid girl at the end of all your work.
cute girls r less work for a better personality.
so for hookups, i like em hot. and...i won't settle for a cute girl to be my gf lol. that explains why I dont do the gf bit. shes gotta be hot and smart n not a b!tch.
so: hot.
hot girls know they're hot n are usually attention wh0res, or b!tches or flirts. or all 3. they play games too.
hot girls are more fo a challenge to get a stupid girl at the end of all your work.
cute girls r less work for a better personality.
so for hookups, i like em hot. and...i won't settle for a cute girl to be my gf lol. that explains why I dont do the gf bit. shes gotta be hot and smart n not a b!tch.
so: hot.
Docs
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cute.
Smooth Player 056
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Why choose?
I say one of each.
I say one of each.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
1 of each sounds great to me... who says you gotta choose anyway... its like asking whats better... cherry flavored or shared pleasure... who the hell cares you get laid either way
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thank you for getting out my anger...i appriciate you.
Dimebag_Darrell
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The Antichrist_Star
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Both...
At the same time.
Oh... I always come up with the ultimate solution.
AS
At the same time.
Oh... I always come up with the ultimate solution.
AS
Hot girls are usually less inteligent and uninteresting because they're hot. But they're nice to pull because... they're hot. Though not every hot girl falls into this category.
I'd say I go for cute girls more often just because it's what I want more then a hot girl.
I'd say I go for cute girls more often just because it's what I want more then a hot girl.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
JayUK
Don Juan
Hot gurls usually want somethin, I prefer cute gurls, ther good for chillin wit more, an aint dumb!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
I prefer fat nasty chicks that eat breakfast lunch and dinner at KFC
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
hot ones
I didn't think that a hot girl and a smart girl go in the same sentence but then I went to an elitist school and I found out that they do. 42 girls of the best and brightest in the state. 35 of them were hot. 20 of them had good personality. Ten were attracted to me. Two of them I dated. One I'm still currently dating.
comic_relief
I didn't think that a hot girl and a smart girl go in the same sentence but then I went to an elitist school and I found out that they do. 42 girls of the best and brightest in the state. 35 of them were hot. 20 of them had good personality. Ten were attracted to me. Two of them I dated. One I'm still currently dating.
comic_relief
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I hate to ruin the moment but....... I don't know the difference.
Jonathan
Don Juan
Cute Girls= Loyal and Nice
Hot Girls= *****es
Hot Girls= *****es
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.